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The Spark Finder

Stop Guessing. Start Connecting

That’s why we developed the Spark Finder — a short quiz that identifies which of 22 specific dating patterns is getting in your way and gives you a personalized report with tips to move forward.

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When it's not working, it's often not obvious why — Where do you start?

Dating is hard 

Find the Pattern.

Find the Person.

You're not broken. You have a pattern. Patterns can change.

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Challenges         I           Pathways         I          to Results           

Take The Spark Finder Quiz

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WHY NOT?

  • It's FREE

  • No sign up required

  • Instant personalized result

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The Worry Pattern in Dating: 



When the Walls Keep Love Out:

 

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Laura Heft, Ph.D.
Spark Coach
Behavioral Scientist, Psychologist, author of ReSingled, and Certified Deeper Dating Mentor.

Laura Heft, Ph.D. Founder and CEO of GrowOptimism

The Spark Finder

St. Louis, MO

llheft@gmail.com

314-620-1510

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